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Our Secret: We met on Plenty of Fish

Updated: Oct 7, 2022

Q&A with a couple that's ashamed to admit where they met online.

Why are you ashamed that you met on the dating app "Plenty of Fish" (POF)?

Frank: It's a hook-up site from what I was told. I was previously divorced, and I had no interest to date long-term. My friend told me that I can find girls on that website that are DTF (down to f****). Amy: That's disgusting. Haha... I was looking for something serious. But in all honesty, I am an easy-going person, and if there's chemistry-- I would be open to sex on the 1st date. So you were both looking for something different? Frank: Yes. On our first date, we met somewhere casual for lunch. I thought she was cute and as we started talking, I realized she was cool too. It was easy talking to her & that's what I liked. Amy: I got lucky though. I had been dating for 2 years straight & couldn't find the perfect 'package' (looks, job, personality). I immediately knew after meeting him, I was going to marry him. How did you know he/she was "the one"?

Frank: I didn't think she was the one after meeting. I was just looking to get laid! Coming out of a terrible divorce, left me uninterested in entering a relationship. I was emotionally drained & untrusting of a woman's intentions. However, after dating Amy for a year-- I knew she was special & sweet. I was just not ready to fully commit for a long time. Amy: Our love story is not a fairytale. We broke up when I realized he was not open to getting married. Thus we dated on & off for 3 years.

“I didn't think she was the one after meeting. I was just looking to get laid! ”

Then you decided to get married, what changed?

Frank: I realized my life was better with her in the picture. She's my best friend.

Amy: I think most women want to get swept off their feet by a guy/partner. We all want to feel wanted. It took him long enough to realize 'I was a catch.' Sometimes the luck of a successful relationship is all about timing.

Your story seems to have a happy ending. Are you embarrassed to share that you met online? Frank: Well, I don't feel comfortable with the perception of meeting my wife on a site with a DTF reputation. I usually lie, and say we met on Match.

Amy: I honestly don't care what people think. The fact is, at that time, I was on EVERY dating website: Match, eHarmony, & Plenty of Fish. I am glad I never settled & we found each other!


Guest Profile Frank is in his mid-50's, he's a Doctor that thought he had no time for dating or interest to get remarried... until Amy came along. Amy is in her early-40's, she's a school teacher and enjoys being social with friends. Their common interests are cycling and spending time at the beach. The secret to their happy relationship: honesty & great sex.

Instagram: @findmetheone.stories


Blog Photo Credits: & (Creative Commons). Contributors Disclaimer: Submissions are memoir. It reflects the author/guests present recollections of experiences over time. Some names and characteristics have been changed, some events have been compressed, and some dialogue has been recreated. Personal stories are not intended to hurt others-- the intention of this blog is to inspire and entertain.

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